What you need and what you want in love don't easily align.
Associated themes
insecurityworthinessrelationship tension
Deeper Understanding
Moon square Venus creates friction between emotional needs and romantic desires. What makes you feel secure might not be what you're attracted to; what you want in relationships might not feel safe.
This often shows up as relationship patterns where security and excitement seem mutually exclusive, or where self-worth gets tangled with being loved.
The work is recognizing that you can have both nurturing and passion—they don't have to compete.